Live's to Give

On one afternoon when I got home from work by riding a motorcycle, I was served a little drama is very interesting, a little boy aged about ten years with very sigapnya sidelines overtaking vehicle density disebuah red light intersection in Jakarta.

With a package that enough diayunkannya blue bicycle, while distributing the packet, he greeted familiar everyone, from Tailor newspapers, street sweeper, until Mr. Tuna homestead police.

This scene made me interested, my mind immediately drifted to imagine what the child is given with the package, did he sell? "What if he sells a homeless may become permanent customers or ...??, To kill my curiosity, I followed the little boy until disebrang road, then I immediately greeted the child to whom I talked. De, "may my brother asked"? please brother, if I may know that just ketukang sister newspapers distributed, janitors, even begging the police officer, then what?, oh ... that little parcel of rice and side dishes kak, kak's why!, with a little surprise, as he asked . Oh .. no! , Brother Just interested in how you distribute the package, you look familiar and quite familiar with them. What you've known them? Then,

This little brother began, "First! I and my mother just as they were only a homeless ", every day working just a lot of people expect compassion, and the big brother live in Jakarta know that difficult, until we often do not eat, our daytime heat and nighttime cold plus our during the rainy season we were often in the rain, when we remember the first time, we were very, very sad, but after my mother opened the rice shop, our family life began to improve.

Thus the mother is always reminding me, that there are still many difficult people like us first, so if we are given a sufficient livelihood, why we can not share them.

That my mother always said "life should mean for many people", because when we go back to the Creator there is nothing we carry, just one that we bring the love of neighbor and the Charity and our good deeds, if today we can practice something good for many people, why we should delay.

Because according to my mother aged man is too short, today we have it all, but an hour later or tomorrow we are called the Creator, "What do we bring"?. The words of this little brother was stabbed my heart, at that moment I felt like a useless person, even I felt no more than a piece of junk is useless, than this little brother.

I have been feeling a great person with education and high position, but for something like this, I feel more stupid than this little boy, I am ashamed and very embarrassed. Well .. Lord, Forgive me, it was wealth, greatness and position did not take me to Thee.

Only the perfect love and faith and your hope to be with me who went to Heaven. Thank you little brother, you are my angel that brought me from my sleep.

(Love is patient, love is kind; he was not jealous. Does not demand its own way. He did not do that are not polite and did not seek its own way. He is not angry and does not save other people's mistakes. He does not rejoice because injustice, but because of the truth. He covers all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.)

Do the little things, by sharing this story with everyone, hopefully the results obtained from this small thing a big impact for many people.

Thomas - 26/7/08

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Says Thank You

We are all happy when people appreciate us and the work we do. In many offices, we often see people showing off a thank-you card from their leaders, a special letter from the consumer, or a certificate of award (which may very old age). Appreciate the work!

Give thanks to your team members. Give credit for their successes and achievements. Say thank you when they managed to progress. You can do it in private, openly, in a written form, or in ways so creative. The people who appreciated his work probably would work better, too.

Show means showing respect for what you want and what you think are important. Without such feedback, your employees may be wrong to interpret what is acceptable or highly valued.

Research shows that people hunger for recognition. If you receive a sincere compliment or what had done well, they not only feel appreciated inwardly, but also produced its own pride among family and friends. This will increase their appreciation to you as a leader. Cycle and will continue to maintain morale. Once a level of achievement awards are given, employees will act and try to maintain the image they have managed to create. (RFM4)

- When was the last time you thanked someone in the ranks of your staff?

- When did you last time someone with genuine praise for his success get the job done so well?

- Today is who you think should get credit?

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The Power of Subconscious Mind

"The greatest waste is in the graveyard, because the dead

before you can optimize your full potential. "

- Andrew Ho --

Humans have an extraordinary power to create

masterpiece. The greatest power in man is present in

mind. But we rarely proves the power of the mind,

because we often get stuck in a comfort zone or a particular habit.

Forever, so can not find a better possibility

or a significant change of fortune.

Have therefore higher targets to stimulate

strength in the mind. For a new target or targets that

think it will move us to implement

action. Especially if the target is believed to be achieved, then

who we will be better prepared to face the challenge.

After the new measures are more constructive work

up repeatedly, then we have unwittingly many

doing important things we arrived at hinga new zone, where we

managed to achieve the desired targets. That's why said

that humans have great potential in the mind

conscious. Power of the subconscious mind that can be generated through the 2

ways, namely: autosuggestion and visualization.

Autosuggestion

Our desires are important information for the mind

subconscious. For recorded strong desire in the mind

aware can be a huge driving force that will move the

ourselves to do something extraordinary. Desire

very large and recorded in the subconscious mind that is

called autosuggestion.

Autosuggestion should be done with a sense of trust,

inner emotions, concentration is on

positive object, and repeatedly. Furthermore, the mind under

realized this is what will dictate the movements of our bodies. Strength

caused by the subconscious mind is very powerful for some

used to do bad or good. Sometimes intentions

to do things automatically come from the subconscious

conscious.

Autosuggestion will knock consciousness (heartknock). Because it is done

repetitive and routine, at one time those words will

penetrate the subconscious mind. Then the subconscious mind Itupun pump

spirit. That energy can be utilized to realize the dream alive

us.

Perhaps this autosuggestion activities will be considered strange by the people

other. But that's one way to transform themselves from within.

Get used to hearing a positive mindset and make a habit -

constructive habits. So do not hesitate to make the culture -

cultural potential, fostering optimism and creativity.

There were 6 (P) instructions in the conduct autosuggestion, that is;

- Positive: at the time of autosuggestion, think about these things

Just positive.

- Powerful: done with full confidence because can provide

the power to do something extraordinary.

- Precise: the desire to be achieved must be able

described, because the subconscious mind can only make

by category.

- Present Tense: in the current form of desire, not a desire on

past or future.

- Personal: make positive changes to yourself first

first.

Visualization

If we want something then the subconscious mind will

describe what is desirable. By way of visualizing

first dream, created a lot of work

spectacular in the world. Marcus Aurelius Antonius, an emperor

Ancient Roman saying, "A man's life is what his thought

make of it - human life is how they think about it. "

Something that humans will always visualized easily recorded in

subconscious. Then came the power of the mind, which

act as liaison between the soul with the body. So

tubuhpun react with all the previous potential

never used, in the form of creativity or action.

Visualize the dream allows the entire dream is achieved by

subconscious.

God Almighty grant equal potential to

humans. There is no harm in imagining how berpotensinya self

we are to achieve your dreams. Here are some steps in

visualize the dream, namely:

1. Defining a dream

Defining a dream means to limit or standard will

dreams to be achieved. Then, draw all the dreams

as if you have deservedly reached that dream. Although

These actions seem simple, but from the picture that dream

we will try to do something to make changes and

finally can reach goal.

2. Specify a target date

Desired dream come true according to predetermined targets,

because dream without a target date will only be a dream for a moment.

Dreams with deadlines will drive awareness for not

hesitate to make changes. So start from today, Be the

best, do the best, and then let God take care the rest - Be a

best, do your best, let God disposes. Potential

we have seemed very fond, if not optimized.

3. Repeatedly perform

Re doing our means to condition themselves more often

will remember our dreams. If you often remember, the dream slowly

It will be embedded in the subconscious mind. When the message is

accepted by the SCM (sub-conscience mind), then he will move

ourselves to create a decision or makes us more

creative.

If the dream is more often imagined it could

doubling the power of the subconscious mind. Imagination

repeated this will indirectly stimulate the illusion will

remarkable fact about our potential as human beings.

So we are going to strive to achieve dreams

visualized. So it went on the power of the subconscious mind

worked and raised, until major changes occur in

us at a time .*

Source: The Power of the Subconscious Mind by Andrew Ho(www.resensi.net)

Winner VS Loser

The Winner says,”It may be difficult but it is possible”

The Loser says ,”It may be possible but it is too difficult”

When a Winner make a mistake, he says ,”I was wrong”

When a Loser make a mistake, he says ,”It wasn’t my fault”

The Winner is always part of the answer

The Loser is always part of the problem

Winner chooses what they say

Loser say what they chooses

The Winner sees an answer for every problem

The Loser sees a problem for every answer

Winner sees the gain

Loser sees the pain

The Winner says ,”Let me do it for you”

The Loser says ,”That’s not my job”

Winners believe in win win

Loser believe win for them and someone has to lose

A winner makes commitments

A Loser makes promises

Winner sees the potential

Loser sees the past

Winner makes it happen

Loser wait it happen

A winner creates vision

A Loser creates imagination

A winner says “I am doing it”

A Loser says “I’ll do it”

Which are you ?

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Exactitude

In a lecture hall, a professor of medicine gave his first lecture. The new student seemed serious.Their eyes stared at the professor, holding the hand taking notes.

"Being a doctor, take courage and precision," the professor's voice. "And I hope you can prove it." Dad was moved to the side. "I have a jar of human lymphatic fluid that has been soaked for 3 months." Professor's dipped a finger into the jar, and put his finger into his mouth. There was little shouting from the students. They looked disgusted. "That's what I call with courage and precision," said the professor is more convincing.

"I need one person who can do like me. Prove that you want to be a doctor. "There was suddenly silent hall. They are confused: between disgust and challenges as a potential doctor.No one raised a hand. The professor said, "Is not there anything that can prove to me? Where courage and thoroughness you? Â €??

Suddenly, a young man raised his hand. "Ah, finally some were brave. Show your friends that you have the courage and ketelitian.â €?? The young man down the stairs to the pulpit where the professor is located. He went the jar with hesitation. His face was tense, and feeling disgusted looks from his face.

He began putting his finger into the jar. Head turned to the side with eyes closed. A small shouts of disgust came again. Slowly, the inclusion of which has been submerged finger into his mouth mucus. Many people who close their eyes, many of them ran toward the bathroom. The professor smiled. The young man smiled wryly, while spitting sideways.

"Aha, you have proved one thing, young man. A prospective doctor must dare. But unfortunately, doctors also need care. "The professor tapped the back of the student. "Do not you see, I'd put a finger into the jar, but the middle finger into the mouth. A doctor did take courage, but more need more precision. "

***

Challenges of life, sometimes not to face death. But, just how to live my life. Many people are afraid to die. But, not a few who chose to die rather than live. Many who take out life on the streets of despicable. Many are reluctant to live just because of the heavy burden of life.

Speech professor was right. The challenge became a doctor, and in fact, be human-is needed courage and thoroughness.

In fact, the challenge is more than just a taste of lymphatic fluid in the jar. Heavier. Much heavier. In life, what we experience sometimes more bitter and intense. However, for a thorough, all could be sweet, be an exciting challenge. It was there found all the taste, appearance and atmosphere that educate. And they can carefully sorting and selecting.

Friends, be careful. Life did take courage. But, it would be needed accuracy. Pay attention to your step, be cautious with your actions. Be careful when "dipped a finger" in the jar of life. If not, "bitter taste" we shall find.

Thank you for reading. Hope you are well and please do take care

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Confident is Important

My friend Whit is a professional magician, and he leased a restaurant in Los Angeles to play tricks every evening to entertain diners while they eat. One afternoon he went to a family, and after introducing himself, he pulled out a deck of cards and went into action. When faced with a little girl sitting at the table, he was told that Wendy, the child, was a blind girl. Whit replied, "It's okay. If he wanted, I wanted to try a magic trick. "As he turned to the child, Whit said," Wendy, you want to help me do this trick? "

With a shy, Wendy shrugged and said, "Want". Whit sitting in a chair across from Wendy's, then said, "I will show you a card, Wendy, and the card can be red and black. I want you to use your psychic powers and tell what color the card, red or black. You understand? "Wendy nodded. Whit show king card clubs and said, "Wendy, this is a red card or black card?"

Kemudiaan a moment, the blind child said, "Black". The family smiled. Whit raised seven card heart and said, "This is a red card or black card?" Wendy said, "red" Then Whit held three cards, three of diamonds and said, "red or black?" Without hesitation, Wendy said, "red ". His family laughed nervously. Whit raised three cards again and Wendy to guess all three correctly!His family could hardly believe how telling his guess.

In the seventh card, Whit held five hearts and say, "Wendy, I want you to guess the value and type of this card. whether the heart, diamonds, clubs or leaves. "A moment later, Wendy replied confidently," five of hearts cards "Her family breathed a breath.

They were amazed! Whit asked his father if he uses magic tricks or real. Whit replied, "You have to ask yourself to Wendy" The father said, "Wendy, how?" Wendy smiled and said."Magic!". Whit shook hands with the whole family, hugging Wendy, leaving his business card, then said goodbye. Clearly he has created a magical moment that will never be forgotten by the family. The question, of course, how Wendy's know the color card? because Whit had never met Wendy before the events in the restaurant, he certainly could not tell before when he will issue a red card or black card. and because Wendy was blind, he could not see color or the value of the card Whit show. so how?

Whit able to create a miracle once in a lifetime by using a secret code and think fast. Early in his career, Whit foot creating a code to convey information to others without kata2. He has not had a chance to use that code to the events in the restaurant. When Whit was sitting across from Wendy and said, "I will show you a card, Wendy, and the card can be red or black," he tapped Wendy feet (at the foot of the table) so when he says "red" and twice when he says "black "

To make sure that Wendy understood, he repeated the secret sign, saying, "I want you to use your psychic powers and tell me, what color the card, red (for) or black (tuk tuk). Do you understand? "When Wendy nodded, he knew that Wendy had understood the code and want to play. Her family thought when Whit asked if Wendy "understand," he was referring to his verbal instructions. How he told the five of hearts card at Wendy? Simple. He knocked Wendy foot five times to tell that the card is worth five. When he asked if the card hearts, leaves, curly or diamonds, he told sex with Wendy foot tapping when he says "heart"

The real magic or a miracle of this story is its effect on Wendy. EVENT IS NOT JUST gave him a chance to shine for a moment and FEEL SPECIAL IN front of her family, HIM, BUT ALSO TO BE A STAR IN THE HOUSE. DURING WHICH HE IS TO FEEL THE CHARGES family, parallel to FEEL TODAY BECAUSE THEY THAT HAPPENS.

A few months after the incident, Whit received a package from Wendy. It contained a set of Braille cards, along with a letter. In the letter, thanked Wendy Whit has made him feel special, and help him "see" for some time. EVEN TO STAY WENDY WAS NOT SEEN, BUT SULAP belief has grown Whit HIMSELF DURING THIS IS MISSING. Wendy closed the letter by saying that he wanted to Whit receive these braille cards so he could think of other tricks for the blind.

Source: Adapted from Chicken Soup for the Soul by Michael Jeffreys

Be The Best

In the community, especially in developing countries, many infected people are myths misleading. Among the myths are: the myth of education, 'I can not succeed because of my education low'. Myth fate, 'I'll fight anyway, I could not succeed because my fate was already like this from sononya'. Health myths, feel themselves not physically strong. Myth of age, 'it's a job for a young child, I was too old for this job'. The myth of gender, 'obviously can aja, he's a woman sayakan men' or vice versa. Myth zodiac, 'he zodiac tiger can indeed succeed, I'm a zodiac pig' and so forth. And diseases other myths.

If the myths that have been used as way of life, then our fate will be difficult to change. Negative mental attitude, as above, obviously is a wrong notion. Especially if it has been entered into our subconscious, it will bring a very negative impact on our lives as a whole. Makes us lose and fail before the fight!

In entering the business world, there are two myths that the greatest influence, namely capital and education issues. I just do not have both when starting a business first. All I have is the idea of making cards pearl words and the courage to try. I have the kung fu skills, and potential that's what I use. I teach kung fu in private to get the initial capital.

So I left without money, without money, without adequate formal education, but which precedes my business? Idea! And the belief that I could succeed, I am entitled to succeed! With this understanding, comes the courage to try.

From denial-denial and struggle through extraordinary resilient, tenacious, and resilient, a new effort to develop well. Failure and rejection is the consequence of every decision we make. We only have two choices, succeed or fail. Dalah key action and a positive mental. For both options could be a 'true' because behind every failure there is a process of education, a lesson for us to do and act more wisely in the future.

Like pearls words that I often say: "The price of a failure and success is not judged by the outcome, but from the struggle". If it was recognized by everyone, there was no such thing as soluble in frustration, disappointment, depression, apathy, loss of motivation, much less desperation.

STILL BE THE BEST. It was not an easy thing to do. Need a strong motivation, commitment to goals, as well as through the process of training in real life practice. As a man who understand, realize, and can think clearly, then we should be able to determine the attitude and the courage with all his energy, time, and the mind to keep developing myself as much as possible.

Science to maintain self-motivation can be learned by anyone. One of the easiest exercises to strengthen ourselves is using self-talk. We explore the positive potential in us with melakkukan dialogue with ourselves.

Make sure that we are having Traffic to succeed. If others can succeed, we also have the right to succeed just like them.

Belief in God, and prayer and practice in this life is an effort that could provide the power of self-motivation extraordinary.

Other mental attitude we need to nurture yan is aware that the success we achieve not just rely on ourselves, there's always other people share in it. Humility is the key word, but otherwise, not inferior at the time of failure.

Thus not only navigate the increasingly mature in this life, certainly the quality of our lives will get better, more

success, which will eventually also be useful for others. MAKE SURE to be the best! BE THE BEST!!

Success is my right - success is my right

Salam great success

Andrie Wongso

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