You will not be able to appreciate what would you have if you can not appreciate what you have right now. Do you agree with that statement? Maybe you'll nodding in agreement.
But in reality, many of us are often trapped and mesmerized by 'the wrong focus'. We are often more appreciative and paying attention to what is not owned, that we desire, rather than on what is already there in our hands.
Call it for example, someone who is in love. He sometimes can get carried away, so forget about family and friends. All the attention and sacrifice as directed only to the he was a. Only a boyfriend who looks important in the eyes, hence the term until the world seemed to belong together.
Everyone seemed to be less important than a boyfriend. Even his own family often forgotten, abandoned, or despised only because of a boyfriend.
In reality, we are only able to love properly boyfriend when we first succeeded in loving and accepting family or the people closest to what they are.
If we fail to love and accept people who have become part of our lives, we too will fail to love the people who will be part of our lives in the future.
Why is that? Because down the road of our lives, 'the people hard to be loved' it will always be there. There will always be pros and cons. We're just dreaming if we expect that we just brought into contact with people who just fun-fun. After all, people are not fun though will always be there to be a part of our lives.
In fact, precisely for those 'difficult' or not absorbed that we should be grateful, because by their existence, we will be prevented from being arrogant and casually. Just think, what would happen if everyone loved and flatter us?! Well, we certainly will be the most arrogant creatures wide highway.
So now the question, why sometimes we are more able to love 'outsiders' than 'insiders'? Why are we so drawn to better appreciate a girlfriend than his own family or friends?
Why only one, namely because we do not really know the character's girlfriend is.
Long life with family and friends make us know what their true character. And, sometimes in the introduction, we often experience conflicts and friction with them, causing a name conflict. Unresolved conflicts that then pollute our relationship with them. Perhaps we are so disappointed, resentful, angry, or hurt.
Then, an outsider to come, and we naively think that they will not hurt us as it had been done by the people closest to us.
In reality, no human being in this world that does not disappoint. All have flaws and imperfections were born in, so that each person has the potential to disappoint each other with each other. Because that's the deal with the existing relationship we need to put mental friends, so not easy to be disappointed.
So, from now on, change our perspective. Let us start from what is within us. If we close there are people that are difficult to face or be loved, then start learning to love and accept them as they are, because if the newly arrived, then we are ready to accept it, because we've trained myself to accept that long.
But in reality, many of us are often trapped and mesmerized by 'the wrong focus'. We are often more appreciative and paying attention to what is not owned, that we desire, rather than on what is already there in our hands.
Call it for example, someone who is in love. He sometimes can get carried away, so forget about family and friends. All the attention and sacrifice as directed only to the he was a. Only a boyfriend who looks important in the eyes, hence the term until the world seemed to belong together.
Everyone seemed to be less important than a boyfriend. Even his own family often forgotten, abandoned, or despised only because of a boyfriend.
In reality, we are only able to love properly boyfriend when we first succeeded in loving and accepting family or the people closest to what they are.
If we fail to love and accept people who have become part of our lives, we too will fail to love the people who will be part of our lives in the future.
Why is that? Because down the road of our lives, 'the people hard to be loved' it will always be there. There will always be pros and cons. We're just dreaming if we expect that we just brought into contact with people who just fun-fun. After all, people are not fun though will always be there to be a part of our lives.
In fact, precisely for those 'difficult' or not absorbed that we should be grateful, because by their existence, we will be prevented from being arrogant and casually. Just think, what would happen if everyone loved and flatter us?! Well, we certainly will be the most arrogant creatures wide highway.
So now the question, why sometimes we are more able to love 'outsiders' than 'insiders'? Why are we so drawn to better appreciate a girlfriend than his own family or friends?
Why only one, namely because we do not really know the character's girlfriend is.
Long life with family and friends make us know what their true character. And, sometimes in the introduction, we often experience conflicts and friction with them, causing a name conflict. Unresolved conflicts that then pollute our relationship with them. Perhaps we are so disappointed, resentful, angry, or hurt.
Then, an outsider to come, and we naively think that they will not hurt us as it had been done by the people closest to us.
In reality, no human being in this world that does not disappoint. All have flaws and imperfections were born in, so that each person has the potential to disappoint each other with each other. Because that's the deal with the existing relationship we need to put mental friends, so not easy to be disappointed.
So, from now on, change our perspective. Let us start from what is within us. If we close there are people that are difficult to face or be loved, then start learning to love and accept them as they are, because if the newly arrived, then we are ready to accept it, because we've trained myself to accept that long.
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