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Love is a feeling you want to share with, or a feeling of affection for someone. Another opinion, love is an action / activity conducted on human beings against another object, of self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love, help, follow the words, followed, obedient, and willing to do any desired object.

The experts have defined and sort out the meaning of this term is very complicated. Among others, they distinguish between:

• Love of family
• Love to your friends, or philia
• Romantic love or also called romance
• Love is just a lust or love eros
• Love each other or also called love or agape
• Love herself, who called narcissism
• Love will be a particular concept
• Love to country or patriotism
• Love will be a nation or nationalism

Several languages, including Indonesian or Melayu language when compared with the current multiple languages in Europe, looks more vocabulary in expressing these concepts. Including ancient Greek language, which distinguishes between three or more concepts: eros, philia and agape.


Defining love
Like many types of lovers, there are many kinds of love. Love was in throughout all of human culture. Because of this cultural difference, the definition of love was difficult to set. See the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis.
The expression of love may include the love of 'soul' or mind, love of law and organizations, love loss, love nature, love food, love money, love learning, love of power, love of fame, etc.. Love is more directed to an abstract concept, easier experienced than explained.


Interpersonal love
Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings.
Some elements are often present in interpersonal love:

• affection: respect others
• Bonding: satisfying basic emotional needs
• Altruism: a non-selfish concern for others
• Reciprocation: mutual love
• Commitment: a desire to perpetuate the love
• Emotional Intimacy: berbagia emotions and sense
• Kinship: family bonds
• Passion: sexual desire
• Physical intimacy: sharing life with each other closely
• Self-interest: the love of personal expecting
• Service: desire to help

Sexual energy can become the most important element in determining the form of the relationship. But sexual attraction often creates a new bond, sexual desire is considered bad or inappropriate in some bond of love. In many religious and ethical system it is considered wrong to have sexual desire for immediate family, children, or outside a committed relationship.
But many ways to express affection without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and the same hobbies very common in friends and relatives throughout the human.