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Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Sunday, 15 November 2009

Meaning of Friend...

When God calls you first,
Ask him whether to bring a friend ....

If your age to one hundred years,
I want to live a hundred years less one day,
So I'm not going to feel to live without you,
on my side ....

True friendship like the meaning of health:
New value we realize that we kehilanganya ....

True friends, will remain with us,
when we feel the whole world is leaving us,,,

My father always said,
If you have many true friends,,
then you will have a wonderful life,,,

If all my friends jumped of a cliff,
I'm not going to follow them,
I'll be at the bottom of the abyss of their arrest utuk

Embrace your true friend with both your arms,

I will guide you
and you will lead me
so instead,,,

Friendship is one soul in two bodies

Do you walk in front of me,
I will not be able to follow you.
Do not you be at your back,
I will not be able to lead you.
Walk beside me,
and be my best friend ....

Friends will listen,
what you say.
True friends will hear,
what you do not say.

A friend is
who can listen to the song
in your heart,
and sing again,
when you forgot the words.

We all have different roles in life,
but it does not matter which of our positions,
will have the slightest sense that role.

Friends of the hand of God to keep us.

Strangers are,,,,
friends who waited to see what would happen.
True friend like snacks in the bowl of life.

As a Woman


In the Hebrew Talmud, where the teachings of the Rabbis involved in it, is written:

Make sure you do not ever make a woman cry,
because God count grains of tears ...

A woman was created from the rib of the man,
not from his feet to step on it,,,
not from his head to master it,,,
but from his side, so that they become equal,,,

In his arms, to hug her,,,
niche through the heart, to love her ,,,,,

What is about LoVe...

Love is a feeling you want to share with, or a feeling of affection for someone. Another opinion, love is an action / activity conducted on human beings against another object, of self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love, help, follow the words, followed, obedient, and willing to do any desired object.

The experts have defined and sort out the meaning of this term is very complicated. Among others, they distinguish between:
  • Love of family
  • Love to your friends, or philia
  • Romantic love or also called romance
  • Love is just a lust or love eros
  • Love each other or also called love or agape
  • Love herself, who called narcissism
  • Love will be a particular concept
  • Love to country or patriotism
  • Love will be a nation or nationalism
Several languages, including Indonesian or Melayu language when compared with the current multiple languages in Europe, looks more vocabulary in expressing these concepts. Including ancient Greek language, which distinguishes between three or more concepts: eros, philia and agape.


Defining love
Like many types of lovers, there are many kinds of love. Love was in throughout all of human culture. Because of this cultural difference, the definition of love was difficult to set. See the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis.
The expression of love may include the love of 'soul' or mind, love of law and organizations, love loss, love nature, love food, love money, love learning, love of power, love of fame, etc.. Love is more directed to an abstract concept, easier experienced than explained.


Interpersonal love
Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings.
Some elements are often present in interpersonal love:
  • affection: respect others
  • Bonding: satisfying basic emotional needs
  • Altruism: a non-selfish concern for others
  • Reciprocation: mutual love
  • Commitment: a desire to perpetuate the love
  • Emotional Intimacy: berbagia emotions and sense
  • Kinship: family bonds
  • Passion: sexual desire
  • Physical intimacy: sharing life with each other closely
  • Self-interest: the love of personal expecting
  • Service: desire to help
Sexual energy can become the most important element in determining the form of the relationship. But sexual attraction often creates a new bond, sexual desire is considered bad or inappropriate in some bond of love. In many religious and ethical system it is considered wrong to have sexual desire for immediate family, children, or outside a committed relationship.
But many ways to express affection without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and the same hobbies very common in friends and relatives throughout the human.